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April 14, 2010

Don’t be so Sure!

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Are you so wealthy you want to pay off another person’s debt?  If so, send me an e-mail and we can arrange something.  Keep that idea in mind as you read this post.

Proverbs is full of a lot of wisdom that can applied to everyday life.  It can also lead to a debt free life and freedom, if you only pay attention and do some simple things.  In Proverbs 6 in reads:

Proverbs 6:1-5 My son, if you become surety for your friend, If you have shaken hands in pledge for a stranger,  You are snared by the words of your mouth, You are taken by the words of your mouth.  So do this, my son, and deliver yourself; For you have come into the hand of your friend:  Go and humble yourself; plead with your friend.  Give no sleep to your eyes, Nor slumber to your eyelids.  Deliver yourself like a gazelle from the hand of the hunter, and like a bird from the hand of the fowler.

Not only should you run for your lives when are in debt.  You should also act like a gazelle when you have “become surety for your friend”.  (Check out the video in this post for a quick laugh).

Why you should not be as sure as the deodorant

Are you familiar with the deodorant commercial for Sure.  If not, take a look:

Ah, the good ole days of simply sing along commercials.  But I digress.  Back to the subject at hand.

Surety, as defined at thefreedictionary.com, is 4 things as follows:

1. The condition of being sure, especially of oneself; self-assurance.
2. Something beyond doubt; a certainty.
3. A pledge or formal promise made to secure against loss, damage, or default; a security.
4. One who has contracted to be responsible for another, especially one who assumes responsibilities or debts in the event of default.
Definition number three says you are making  pledge or promise to secure against default.  You DO NOT want to be in this position.
 

The only thing you can be sure about

Do you know what the only thing you will be sure about when you co-sign a loan for you friend or family member?  Actually there are two things.
1.  You are sure to lose a relationship….AND
2.  You are sure to be on the hook for the loan after he or she defaults.
 

Don’t do it!

Please, please, please do not co-sign that loan!  Your relationship with your best friend, sister, brother, mom, dad, son, daughter, etc is way to important to destroy over money.  Teach them to fish (save and work for the money) instead of giving them a fish (paying their loan off after they default).
 

Give it to them!

If you want to help them out, show them the money! That is right, give them the money, no strings attached.  You will keep your relationship and have an understanding from the beginning.
 

Chime in

Let us know what you think on this subject.  Have you co-signed a loan for someone?  Did it work out or did you end up paying the loan off?  I would love to hear what you have to say.

 

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8 Comments »

  1. Good advice

    Comment by Jim — April 14, 2010 @ 7:38 pm

  2. I agree that surety is not a good thing. I remember my Dad cosigning my first car loan. That loan helped me to not want to be in debt. I paid 18% interest on the loan and I paid it off as fast as I could. Thanks for your post.
    .-= Mr. Not Made of Money´s last blog ..How to Save Money When Buying Plane Tickets =-.

    Comment by Mr. Not Made of Money — April 14, 2010 @ 7:49 pm

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    Comment by Brian — April 14, 2010 @ 7:55 pm

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